10 Things I Have Learned About Women After 5 Years of Dating

Dating can be a wild journey full of surprises, lessons, and growth. Over the course of five years, I've discovered several truths about women that have reshaped how I approach relationships. Here are ten key things I’ve learned:

1. Your Voice is Foreplay
   Women are deeply attuned to tone, pitch, and the way you speak. Your voice can set the mood before anything else. Calm, deep, and confident tones can be incredibly attractive, even more than just physical attraction.

2. If She Says She Likes You But Won't Allow You to Sexually Escalate, She's Lying
   When a woman likes you, she will make room for intimacy. If she resists or avoids sexual escalation, it could mean she's not as interested as she says, or perhaps isn't ready for that kind of commitment.

3. Remain Calm Around Her Storm of Emotions and She Will Love You More
   Women experience a wide range of emotions, and when they do, they want someone who can be a rock. If you remain composed, you show her that you're capable of handling her emotional intensity with grace and maturity. This can deepen her feelings for you.

4. If She’s Not Constantly Chasing You for Your Attention, You Ain’t the One
   A woman will naturally want to seek your attention if she’s invested in you. If you don't feel like she's interested in maintaining the connection, it may be a sign that she doesn’t see you as "the one."

5. Act the Opposite of How She Does If You Want Her to Remember You
   When a woman acts distant, clingy, or emotional, sometimes the best response is to remain balanced and even a little distant. This contrast can make you stand out in her mind, sparking curiosity and interest.

6. She Wants to Be the Source of Your Pleasure. Her Ego Thrives Off This
   Women want to feel desired and appreciated. If she feels that she's the one who brings you joy, pleasure, and satisfaction, it boosts her ego and creates a deeper connection.

7. Always Say Less Than Needed
   Sometimes, silence speaks louder than words. Women often appreciate a man who knows how to keep things simple and not over-explain. Let her draw her own conclusions and let her imagination do the rest.

8. Treat Her Like a Little Girl. (Real G Knows How This Works)
   While this may sound unconventional, many women enjoy a man who can nurture and protect them, not just in a physical sense, but emotionally as well. Treating her with gentle care and attention can strengthen your bond.

9. Tattoos, Changed Hair Color, and Piercings Are All Flags
   Major physical changes can indicate she's going through a period of emotional transformation or seeking attention. These are often signs that she's navigating something deeper inside her.

10. She Wants You to Judge Her
    Women don’t want to be left in ambiguity. While they might not always admit it, they want you to make decisions, take charge, and give them the direction they crave. When you assert yourself, it shows that you’re confident in your choices.

Dating is all about learning and growing together. These lessons have helped me better understand how to connect, communicate, and build stronger relationships. Each one has shaped me into the person I am today, and I continue to learn as I go.